Illusion

You know we often times take a "step back" from situations and we end up making a decision based on a series of events. Why is it do we think that giving us space from a situation causes us to make what we perceive as rational decisions. This is when are the most comfortable making decisions when we are in a calm state. So that we can weigh the pros & cons of each possible outcome. We think of the good and bad for each decision. It is when we consider the decision that we can live with and rationalize the reason for our decisions. It is these rationalizations that we cling to at night, that help us keep going day to day, minute to minute, second to second. Sometimes this is an affirmation for us and can either lead to our own's misery or happiness. So, is it true then that those who are not a happy person, is it because its the easiest emotion for them to rationalize. That rationalization that gets them from day to day, minute to minute, second to second. So in theory I would say that it really is mind of matter. If you are positive thinker then more positive things will happen to because that is the easiest thing for you to rationalize. They say that bad habits are hard to break because its as equally mentally dependent as it is physical. My philosophy is that if you think that something will happen and you're persistant about that then eventually it will come to light. You have to mentally want something as much as you do physically. Physical in the sense as of carrying out the series of events that your mind has placed in action(i.e. walking to the store to pick up computer paper for your business draft)

MY POV: Why we are the way we are?

This is my theory on why we are the way we are. It is because of our cultural environments. You might say wow..what a concept?(in a condenscening way...of course)We either want to be like the ones we were surrounded by as we grew up or either they are driving to be the opposite. We subconsciously know whether or not we want to fit in the mold of our loved ones or either we don't because of the ideals we have seen growing up. We make the choice to be either as good, worse, better, or the same as the people in our life. People who are always called a screw-up sooner or later they believe that they are. People who are considered to be an achiever place pressure themselves more so to achieve, and then there are they few who have bad luck or good luck, that intefer in their destiny. Yes, destiny for we hold in our hands the choices we make and each have a place to fill in life. Somehow our mere existence in intertwined by even the smallest players in our life. For someone we walk past on the street we have played to a moment that led to a huge moment that affected their lives in either a better/worse way.

There I figure are five divisions of people's personality and pre-determination of where they end up in life. You have of course the over achievers, the slackers, good luck, bad luck, mediocore. Of course all of these classifications come by the inconsequtial things like the material things we own, our shell(physical apperance), the jobs we have, where we live, and so forth. We often don't take time to look beyond the suits and clothes that bind us. For me get so caught up in what people have, what car they drive, where they live, work, vacation. We never take the time to get to know the inner person. If they don't meet a certain expectation that who places on us, society? If they look different then people ask you why are you with them? When our shell has nothing to do with the beauty of a persons heart and soul. A beauty of a persons mind. These two are independent features of one another. So why does beauty and appearance hold such weight in our society. Why do we confine ourself to mundane things as such. Beauty that resoinates through every part of a person, mentally, spiritually, & lastly someone that appeals to my highly commericalized outview on beauty is someone that is beauty. Someone that goes beyond beauty.

People need to stop confining to these five groups of people (imo) and putting everyone in a box and allow for the freedom that America is known for. We as a people have the freedom to do anything but at what cost when truly every freedom has a price. When us Americans kill everyday because of what was a result of people using one of their freedoms. What they were told that they have a right to since they were in the womb. Now, don't get me wrong I love being an American and the intent which it is based upon. However, I believe there is some room for improvement, which is important because without improvement then we will stay stagnant and before long we will begin a decline.

To wrap it up... Everyone is just a person and should be free to be their own person without the baggage of their environment, and you can'talways judge a book by it's cover beauty is only skin deep and shouldn't hold any relevance to the word beauty because. Beauty should be through and through.

I think i kind of just went off on a tangent lol. Sorry. Hope you Enjoy!


*TrAc*